i've been back in america nearly two weeks now. the big goal has been achieved: i'm typing this in our new apartment, surrounded by boxes and haphazard furniture and some very forgiving cats. there's so much i want to write about here:
-the overlap between femininity & acceptability in my head, and why i 'girl out' when i'm nervous
-being invisible and the subtle homophobia of perpetrating invisibility.
-how i got wet at the nyc dyke march and relied on the kindness of strangers who are no longer strangers now
and lots more. but as i'm cadging wireless here i'll stop now. i've missed reading your blogs so much. thanks for still stopping by here... hope to have proper internet by next week.